Why Men And Women Look For Sex, Fall In Love… And Cheat.
This has been a fascinating subject for me… Falling in love, Why I think about sex so much and what is it about cheating?
Men and women are supposed to be built for one another aren’t they? If this is truly the case, then how come there’s so much misunderstanding between the two?
I have come to understand the addictive qualities of falling love… it’s much like cocaine and I have said more than once that it is more of a “state” than an emotion… but I am WRONG about that! I am finding that it’s more of a “drive”… a fundamental human drive to…
Well, watch the videos in the links that I have provided a little further.
Back to falling in love…
We all do it, we all know when it happens. We can walk into a crowded room or be walking down a busy people-filled street and then we will notice someone. That someone just seems to stand out among the rest.
I say notice because in that busy street or room filled with people there is quite literally a potential ‘mate match’. Someone that could meet every requirement on our list of ‘things I want in a partner’ and yet… we may not even find anyone with whom we are attracted to.
Or on the other hand… there will be that one person that set off every nerve ending we have have and turns us ‘on’. Thus falling in love at first sight.
We crave the lust, we think about sex. We crave the intimacy that only two people can share… we want the closeness of the laughter and giggles… and even the sharing of the tears to some degree if it gets us to the ‘bond’.
Here are two videos I watched that really explain how our brains are geared for reproduction. How our brains are designed to initiate us to search for a ‘mate’ select that mate and then tell us to stay attached.
It also shows us how we can be laying in bed with our selection and then be totally and completely in love with another completely different person.
Aside from falling in love and all the gooey stuff… one thing has remained elusive to me. I have been on a dating site, I see and meet people in my everyday life, and as I am fumbling with the emotions of my divorce, I am taking the time to notice who and what I am attracted to, and who and what is attracted to me.
And then I ask myself questions about it.
Why this trait?
Why that attribute?
What is it about THAT physicality I find so attractive?
These are kind of ridiculous questions that really don’t or can’t be answered… but I still ask “why am I asking these questions?” lol! what is making me ask them… what is ‘driving me to do this?’ because I know that I am not ready right now to have another relationship this soon, I have yet to fully heal from what is going on inside me.
What about you?
What makes you want to fall in love? What makes you yearn for the soaring highs and accompanying emotional crashes that are associated with falling love?
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